Don’t buy you affection
What is affection?
Affection is the positive feeling you may have or express for other people or things. Your family or your colleagues can show that feeling for you, or not. Every one counts. But it is problem if that is bought. It can be.
If you earn big money, don’t use it so your conscience and buy your friends and family affection. They are not with you for that. You better hire help so you could spend time with your friends and family. Sometimes, very successful people are tolerant to their team on work but not tolerant with their family.
Buying someones feelings is not correct thing. And it’s not smartest thing you can do. It is not correct because people should have honest feelings. On work and off it. It is not smartest thing for many reasons. most important one is that they will get used to it, and expect it for no reason in the future. Other important is that you will not have honest relationship with them when they are showing love for presents. Why is honest relationship important? In modern business you have very much intense work hours. You will need great team to survive every day. Great team and honest relationship, as much as it can be. You will have to know on who you can you count on for help, or for good hard work.
Relationship with your coworkers
With what can you buy your “exclusive” relationship to your coworkers? With everything, driving home, with presents, even with making yourself less important than they are. God and great relationship on work is very important. But you have to keep yourself important to you as well. If you know you can count on yourself, you will have to know that you can count on your colleagues. If you passed that relationship with them, than it is maybe inappropriate. You will have to make it correct again. It is what your future in the company is depending on. So think carefully what is wrong, and correct it.